Nice guys give up on dating. You've met enough jerks, insensitive guys, dull women or men, or total non-communicators. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. My business is quite dangerous, in a completely legal way though. No one will ever care what you say you are, people care what you can demonstrate that you are. Thanks for your cooperation and enjoy the discussion! Since she doesn't want that, she knows she will eventually have to be the one to end it. Interesting read. My general personal experience is that people who have a degree of happiness and contentment in life do not hinge it upon others or external factors. You can take any guy right now. That person will not likely show up five minutes after you sign up for an online dating site. By Averi Clements.