My wife had an affair and wants a divorce. The bad stretches usually result from my issues with trust. Hence, if one's marriage is not sinful, then that marriage continues at conversion. Thank you for listening. I have found complete submittal to God gives Him full access to work on you. And so far we have described people who suffer though they are innocent of sin; but the person who unscripturally remarried is guilty of adultery! I think the tune for most people only changes when they have had direct experience with these situations though. FaceBook, Twitter, and even Craigslist have all helped make having an affair simple and discrete. How to Represent Yourself Parental Responsibility: In a paranoid, nervous relationship, you are placed in a hopeless cage of anxiety and guilt. What am I supposed to do?