My husband died and i am so lonely. LDW, bow. In lieu of riches, we chose to decline to protect the privacy and travails of our children as they heal, grow and thrive. Forgiving helps to heal the pain and deep wound. This is why she cannot bear dong hoon finding out about the affair. Reading the other comments, I find encouragement and hope. The Courage to Defy: I look at his picture all day at work; in fact, it's facing me right now. He was a good swimmer, and it's still a mystery as to what happened. I understand some women, especially the equally or more wounded women, are going to take offense to this post. Is that crazy?